The First Step
If you’re reading this, it means you’re ready. Maybe you’re a little nervous. Maybe you’re freaking out a little. But you are definitely, completely, ridiculously READY.
Ready to not feel like roommates and get your best friend back.
Ready to create a relationship you would want your kids (if you have them) to see and emulate.
Ready to get through conflicts without escalating and/or shutting down.
Ready to clean out what’s under that relationship rug so that you can let go of resentment.
Ready to stop settling for a “meh”.
Ready to feel successful in the relationship department, TOO.
You’re ready to commit to your happiness because, deep down, you know it’s what’s best for the people you love the most.
If this sounds like you, then I’m thrilled you’re here. How I work with couples is different.
I have worked deeply with couples for almost 20 years and there is something I know for sure: If you want something you’ve never had, you’ve gotta do something you’ve never done. This is your chance to DO that thing. Congrats on taking the first step. I'm so excited to see what we can do.
The 3-Week Jumpstart
For all couples, we begin with a 3-week jumpstart of private therapy sessions.
Week 1: This week we'll start with a 2-hour joint couples session where I gather information about the history of the relationship, where you are now, and where you want to be. The goal of this session is to leave you feeling hopeful and like you have some momentum to push forward.
Week 2: I meet with each partner individually for 1 hour (so 2 hrs total). This way, if there's anything that's hard to say in front of the other person...this is your time to say it. I also collect a more in-depth personal history of each partner.
Week 3: We come back together for a 1-hour joint session. By this time we are all a lot clearer about where you are and where you want to be, and I can make recommendations on what I think it will take to get you there. You’ll leave this session with clear goals and recommendations for continued work and wellness.
After your 3-Week Jumpstart I’ll make a recommendation of how to move forward. These recommendations can range from booking some pay-as-you-go sessions, discounted packages of sessions, or comprehensive programs (more info below). After the 3-Week Jumpstart, you have a lot of choice in how we work together.
“You don’t need to resolve conflict to feel better. You need to feel better to resolve conflict.”
-MIKA ROSS
Couples Program Details
After your 3-Week Jumpstart I'll be really clear about the pros and cons of different options for moving forward. Below are comprehensive programs for couples that may or may not be a good fit for you at that time, but I like to give you all the details about options now. I have meticulously designed comprehensive programs for couples to not leave any relationship stone unturned…and to get you the results you crave in the most efficient way possible. I DO NOT RECOMMEND THESE FOR EVERYONE and may suggest moving forward with pay-as-you-go sessions at my hourly rate ($227), depending on what your issues and goals are.
The Strengthen Program
Total Investment: $2,377 (Value $5,119)
Starting to feel the disconnect? Come from a family that didn’t teach you about the kind of marriage you want? Looking for a premarital program or prep before baby?
This 14-week program might be a great fit for you. The Strengthen Program includes:
7 Private Sessions
Your Marriage, But Better Online Course
Unlimited Email Support
Monthly Live Q&A’s
Private Group Forum
The Repair & Strengthen Program
Total Investment: $3,447 (Value $6,169)
Feel like roommates? Feel like resentment has built slowly over time and intimacy has decreased? Miss your best friend?
This 24-week program is for you. The Repair & Strengthen Program includes:
13 Private Sessions
Your Marriage, But Better Online Course
Unlimited Email Support
Monthly Live Q&A’s
Private Group Forum
Your Marriage, But Better Online Course
Total Investment: $1,147
This 8-module online course leaves no relationship stone unturned. With topics ranging from communication and personality types to sex drive and radical happiness, this course will help you and your partner create a clear vision for your relationship, pinpoint destructive beliefs that are keeping you stuck, and get under the surface to communicate more deeply and reach your relationship goals.
What About The Cost?
An off-track relationship can be costly. It has the power to ruin the most tropical of vacations, the nicest of dinners and the most romantic date nights. Stressful relationships decrease productivity and can block success in other areas of your life (not to mention that the average divorce costs between $10-20K 😳).
Our work together is an investment that could save you tens of thousands down the road. All private sessions are billed at my standard $227 hourly rate, however our initial 3-week jumpstart comes with a 20% discount for a total investment of $897.
Happy Client Testimonials
"I just want to say that I really appreciate our time together. I feel like we've really gotten results... more than we’ve gotten with other counselors, and I finally feel hopeful."
-Wife and mother of 4 participating in family counseling for her blended family
"[My Husband] and I have finally begun to heal from all our anger with each other, learned to communicate with love, and finally have a happy home again!! We are both determined to never let ourselves get to that point again. Your counseling was a huge, huge help to me at a very difficult time. Thank you!"
-Hard-working mom of 2 did great work in her relationship
"My husband said you deserve a million dollars for the changes we've made while working with you."
-That's a big compliment coming from a husband resistant to therapy ;-)